Quick tips

• A no is a full answer. Watch the reply to a no: acceptance is green, pushing or guilt is red.
• Money talk is a stop sign. Gift cards, emergencies or "investments" from someone you haven't met: always say no.
• Stay on the app. Its report and block tools protect you. Move when you're ready, not when you're rushed.
• Meet in public. A busy café, a friend who knows where you are, and an easy way home.
• Slow is healthy. Huge feelings on day one feel nice but rush you. Real closeness takes time.